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Forums > Living in Chengdu > Meeting the ladies in Chengdu
just some additions:
no parent tells a girl "don't date a foreigner" as there are so few in china compared to the billions of chinese people, especially in second tier cities like chengdu.
parents from poor and rural backgrounds often highly object against those relationships though and will threaten to disown their daughter and never speak to her again, just like in the west if the guy is black, indian etc.
relatively poor white collar girls that are attracted to foreigners and somehow managed to learn proper english will see you as their only way up the social ladder.It's uncommon for a girl that makes 2000-4000RMB and has no influential parents to marry a rich guy. If she's really pretty she might make it as a second wife.
spoilt girls with rich parents might see you as an adventure or accessory comparable to a gucci bag, but mostly they're not too interested in foreigners as rich chinese guys are a lot richer than your average english teacher out here.
the most common type of girl you'll meet has just finished uni, speaks decent english, has watched lots of western movies and knows that china is kinda boring. She think's you're an interesting guy from an interesting country.
be prepared to catch an STD, nobody in china ever checks for them unless their dick is falling off.
girls think it's normal that their female part smells like rotten fish, will try to talk you into doing it bareback because they hate condoms just as much as chinese men do. after all only hookers ask for condoms right?
everything in hospital records will end up with the government which is another factor involved.
>One friend of mine was introduced to a 25-year-old with a high-level fashion job, her own Porsche and fancy apartment
She lied about her job and is a second wife by profession.
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- August 13, 2012
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Forums > Living in Chengdu > My Company wants to prematurely cancel my Visa
tl;dr just another person that got a shady visa from a shady unlicensed language school that doesn't want to be responsible for any activities after your departure.
you haven't been in china for long if you didn't realize right away that they're lying straight in your face which is common practice, especially when you work for a shady employer.
the advice regarding getting in touch with a visa agent is spot on, if he can't help you it's time for a relatively cheap trip to HK if you really want to stay in china some more time.
- August 13, 2012
